I didn’t know

Sometimes it must be hard to be a guy…

Have society make you feel you have to be “tough” all the time

Being turned on and not being able to hide it (I’d hate that!)

Not being able to whine to your friends about your feelings

Having women pretend you’re a complete ass when it comes stuff like cleaning

But most of all, not knowing how women feel about you. Cause seriously, if you men had heard me and my friend Liz talking yesterday, you’d feel so much better.

Me: That MUST be the hottest guy I’ve seen in ages!

Her: What, the waiter-guy?

Me: Absolutely, he is so my kind of guy! Tall, skinny, facial piercings, lame skater-boy clothing: I can pretty much see his butt, his pants are so low, and I don’t mind!

Her: He is cute, the skinny thing works for me too. I hate it when a guy is all muscular!

Me: YES! Gross, triangular shaped guys… yuck. But this one… He has strong arms from waitering all day, big hands, always useful in bed, and… Fuck it, I want him!

Her: *Grin* Yeah, men like subtle girls like you. Must be your dry spell.

Me: So what, I definitely want to have sex with him. But how the hell do I chat him up? I can hardly say: “Can I have the bill please? And by the way, you’re totally my type, what time are you off?”. How ‘bout I try: “I’d love to chat you up, but I don’t know how. Do you have any advice?”, while trying to keep a most innocent facial expression?

Her: Yeah, subtlety really isn’t you thing, is it?

I didn’t have the guts though. We ended up in a sexshop spending 150 euro’s on vibrators… But the point of my story is, besides the fact that I’m desperate for a good shag with a hot guy, that I realized I wasn’t sure if men know this. If they know how women talk about men, feel about men.

Surely I’m not the only one who has a thing for skinny men, I know this. But do you men know?

And do you know that the girl eying you, might very well be me (or one of my sisters in lust) dying for you to chat me up and fuck me afterwards? Women lust after men, just as much as the other way around. Women definitely objectify men, although it may be on other things than you expected.

Did you know?

Then again, I didn’t know until yesterday that I was a pussy when it comes to chatting men up. Afraid to be rejected, or at least to come on to strong… Apparently, just as men feel they should be tough (mentally and fysically) (and please, don’t!), I feel that as a woman I should be the one chatted up, not the other way around. Pathetic!!

Sometimes it is hard to be a girl…